Sex: Virgin's POV

Location: A deep, dark, private place...
Mood-of-the-day: Mysteriously mischievous

-->"... and he breathed into her ear, whispering his secret intentions. She gasped; her eyes grew wide with shock. But still she did not try to struggle from his tight embrace. She could feel ever part of him against every part of her and still she wondered if there could be more. That was went it struck her, a sudden sharp pain somewhere near her loins. She wanted to scream, her lips parted. He covered her mouth with his, and the pain vanished. Then a hot flood engulfed her insides, in a way that could be described as a touch of heaven...<--

I dunno whatchamacallit, really. Mating, making love, sleep together, birds n' bees, or the most common - sex. Well, if you're looking for a how-to guide on sex, you're drooling over the wrong website, bud (and wipe your mouth, you dog!). The best advice I could give you is the one from an old but user-friendly discussion:

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Place plug A to socket B. Prior to connecting, please warm up for a while as sudden shock is expected if proceed too quickly, especially if socket had never been tested. Practice with other areas of interests and be encouraged to explore. For best results, warm-up slowly. If no charge can be passed, cleanse and repeat when appropriate. After charge has passed, continue more slowly and conserve energy. Repeat if desired.

Warning: Please make sure that plug has adequte protection to avoid accidents. If accident does occour, please refer to Chibi's article (link is missing). If accident is intentional, then congratulations!

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Hah! Written like a virgin. This one's been quite a discussion back at the Xfresh Forums. And a started a whole round of plug and socket insertion styles, safety and techniques.

The question is: how do you know when to do 'it'. And with whom? Maybe they teach that in sex education classes, I dunno. Am I supposed to wait for a tall dark handsome stranger who will come to take me away to a magical place where only two lovers can share? Or are we entering a more modern era, where men are like clothes and women have to try them on for size before they find the right one to look and feel good in (Oh joy to the women who shops in the Love Mall).

Common sense (and my mother) told me to wait for the One Man. The way I see it, sex is like the signature on the contract of ever lasting relationship. You do it and commit to it, not committing to doing it. Such acts make us more careful about the ones we're choosing for as a significant other. Many are still under the assumption that nothing's as good as the first time. Or that nothing's special gonna come around cos 'we've done this before'. Maybe they're right.

And what about foreplay? Aye, there's the rub. Betcha that they didn't teach that in sex edu. Both sides of the human species liked to be stimulated through touch. The trick was balance it between the half that rockets like fireworks and the half's like a diesel engine that runs a long, long time. S'matter of fact, I thought all the foreplay in the romance novels was the actual sex, until I found one that was less metaphorical and more literal :D. Plug n' Play. And that book's back at Novel House btw (I was 14).

When I was 7, I thought all singlehoods ends at age 20. Well, I'm going to be 20 in 9 days and still no tall, dark, handsome man in sight. Mainly because once I shone the light on them, they all looked prematurely or misleadingly jaded. Still, it's not like I can't be encouraged to study how evolution make us did it. For all I know, two primitive cells might have walked into a bar and both got drunk together. The next morning, they've invented orgasm and a baby.

Signed: *Ophie, and the 'Foreplay highlighted' entry